Friday, August 10, 2012

Freeky Friday: Awesomely Bad


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Oh hi, Freeks. I've missed you, you know. Today's topic:
What's your all-time favorite movie quote?
I've been searching my brain for the best quote of all time all damn day. Trying to think of something classic that Katharine Hepburn said that sums up why she's my hero. Itemizing princess quotes to find the one that best sums up the Disney Gospel. I even read some articles about Anchorman to refresh my memory about the movie that inspired me to quote movies for all time. But I kept coming back to this.

Picking this quote is up there with the most ridiculous decisions I've ever made in my life. I'm not going to tell you not to laugh. I am, however, going to warn you not to judge too quickly. Just let me explain.

My favorite movie quote comes from the worst movie of all time. If you have lived in blissful ignorance of The Room, I both envy and pity you. I suggest you head over to YouTube and enlighten yourselves. In the meantime, here's my favorite scene:



I first saw The Room when I was home from college one summer. Being constantly surrounded by movie buffs and connoisseurs of the awesomely bad, it was a sort of rite of passage for me to see the film. For those that don't know, The Room is Tommy Weiseau's disasterpiece about a weird ass man and the love of his life and some dude named Mark and also there's a kid and something about forks. Okay, I really don't know what The Room is about. The important thing is IT DOESN'T MATTER. It's awful. So awful. So deliciously awful it hurts.

After my second time seeing the movie (which, by that point, had been turned into a drinking game), I had all the big lines memorized. I didn't dare to mention them in front of my family, until I noticed my brother-in-law, a full-blown nerd and no stranger to the world of Internet sensations, quoting the movie as well. In front of all of my cousins, we started talking about the horrors and wonders of The Room. He confessed that he had never seen it, but he knew all the big lines from YouTube and message boards. After a few "YOU'RE TEARING ME APART, LISA"s and some "I DID NAAAAHT"s, we decided to enlighten the rest of the cousins.

Keep in mind that at this point it's about 2 a.m., we're all drinking, and we are naturally giggly and goofy when we are together even before alcohol. Put yourself in that state and spend some time YouTubing. By the time we got to the above clip, we were hunched over in laughter. For the rest of the weekend, every other sentence seemed to start with "oh hi" and end with "you know".

The best part of all of this? Since the character's name is Mark, we started associating the line "Oh hi, Mark" with the wonderful moments we constantly experience when our Mark asserts his presence and influence in our lives. Just how this ridiculous quote became something beautiful is beyond me, but I think that's what my family does best - turn something silly into something wonderful. When you're driving down the highway after a rough day at work, and 311 comes on. Oh hi, Mark. When you had a rough flight home, but a soldier returning home reminds you that family is more important than anything. Oh hi, Mark. When you're with your cousins, singing your heart out, celebrating the marriage of your sister, and a gust of wind blows through your hair. Oh hi, Mark.

That's right. My favorite movie quote of all time comes from the worst movie of all time. And I'm not at all ashamed of that. What's that? You still don't believe me? YOU'RE TEARING ME APART, FREEKS! justkiddingiloveyou.

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Friday, July 20, 2012

Freeky Friday: Well-Rounded




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Sorry about the delay, Freeks! Here's today's Freeky Friday topic:
How do you stay healthy?
In a word? Bananas.


Long-term readers may recall a series I attempted to write about losing weight, which ended horribly with a heartfelt confession about the dangers of obsessing over the number on the scale. Since then, you may have noticed, I haven't really said anything about health at all on this blog... or anywhere in life, for that matter. In fact, I kind of revolted against eating right and exercising and put on quite of few pounds since my pre-bridesmaid weight loss. I blamed it on the stress of student teaching - which probably is to blame for at least part of it - and avoided scales and tight clothes for about 6 months. And then I graduated... and took a long hard look in the mirror.

After over a year of not looking, I stepped on the scale. I had gained 25 pounds in about a year.

Haphazardly trying to eat less and exercise more resulted in me feeling like crap and not losing an ounce. I need monitoring - I need mindfulness. But to calorie count again after what happened last year? That seemed like a really stupid decision.

And then I found out that my cousins had joined Weight Watchers with amazing results (shout out to Jen, my WW inspiration and freeking birthday princess!). I've always had my eye on WW, never wanting to pay but fully supporting their philosophy. After a week in Orlando with the family, I decided to jump on the WW bandwagon. I had support (two cousins, my sister, and my brother-in-law are all doing it!), they were having a sale, and most of all, I was desperate.

I have been on WW for 2 weeks and am noticing a tremendous difference. First of all, I've lost almost 4 pounds and a few inches off my waist and thighs. But more than that, I feel AMAZING. My skin looks better. My hair feels softer. My nails are growing faster. I have more energy. I am more naturally positive and outgoing. Now how much of that is due to me looking good and therefore feeling less stressed out and how much of it is a direct result of the food? Who cares! The important thing is, it's working.

But to go into more detail (and to explain my earlier answer), there is one sole reason I think WW is working for me: Points make sense. Points are calculated using fat, carbs, fiber, and protein - no calories involved. Apart from the fact that the math is easier (26 points a day is a lot easier to wrap your head around than 1200 calories), I feel like I'm monitoring the right things. Low fat. Lean protein. More fruits and veggies (all fruits and most veggies are 0 points!). Less carbs. The carbs I do eat are high in fiber. This is the way human beings are supposed to eat.

When I was calorie counting, I always struggled with the fact that a banana, a bag of pretzels, and a glass of wine are roughly the same amount of calories. Shouldn't I be rewarded for eating whole, unprocessed, naturally delicious fruit and somewhat penalized for eating the sugary, nutrition-less, un-filling alcohol? It got to the point where I felt guilty about eating higher calorie fruits, like bananas or apples. Strictly calorie-counting diets reward you for eating "diet" food and pretty much nothing else. On Weight Watchers, my pour for a glass of wine would probably average around 6 points. A small bag of pretzels, roughly a serving, would be 3 or 4 points. And a banana? ZERO POINTS. HOORAY FOR FRUIT!


But beyond the fact that I can have all the gosh darn bananas I want, I chose to talk about WW today because it's keeping me mentally healthy. I can stick to this. It is working for me. I feel good about it. And I don't guilt trip myself every time I eat a banana. And if I start to guilt trip myself about food, I have a huge support system of other point-aware people to turn to. And that's a pretty healthy place to be in.

How do you stay healthy?
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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Deck the Walls

I recently gave you all a glimpse into the design of my new bedroom, but I noted that two challenges remained. One of those is the search for the perfect wall decor. I really want one, beautiful, permanent piece that I can proudly hang above my bed that brilliantly accents the room. There are so many incredible designers out there; it's so difficult to choose! The big question is whether I want...

...an inspirational quote...





...or an ode to NYC...



...or something random and whimsical...




...or something typographic...



...or something vaguely Disney.



Decisions, decisions! There are just so many talented artists and so many wonderful online stores selling their stuff! What do you think? Where have you found art in the past?

Friday, July 13, 2012

Freeky Friday: Pick Me Ups



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Happy Friday the 13th, Freeks! We hope you're not too superstitious to answer today's prompt?
What are your little pick-me-ups?
Well this topic just begs for a photo list, dontchathink? Here are a few of my favorite tactics to beating the blues:

Reading Harry Potter on my Kindle (I obviously need this cover!)

Funky Wayfarers

Walking in Central Park


Playing on Pinterest (can you tell from these other pictures?)

Painting my nails (although I could never manage something this crazy!)

Sitting in a coffee shop

Stalking brilliant designers on sites like Society6

Stalking puppy pictures, like this one from amazing rescue org Badass Brooklyn

Baking (you saw that one coming)

What are your little pick-me-ups?
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Come on back next Friday, July 20th, and answer this prompt:

How do you stay healthy?




Thursday, July 12, 2012

Freeky Friday: The Freeking June Winner!

Happy Thursday, Freeks! We want to thank you all for your participation in the first month of this summer's Freeky Friday posts! Now before we announce this month's winner, let's recap a little, shall we?

We kicked off the summer by catching up with our participants. We asked you what the best thing that happened to you in the last year was. We heard plenty of awesome responses, from rediscovering your dreams, overcoming adversity, and spending time with loved ones. Next we asked what your favorite local tradition was. While I chose to boast about NYC, plenty of you all tempted me to play in your neck of the woods with stories of ice cream and beaches. We brought back an oldie-but-goodie on June 22nd by asking for your Summer 2012 Positivity Playlists. From Coldplay to LMFAO, Jason Mraz to David Guetta, you guys really made us want to rock out! Finally, we asked for your pop culture alter egos. I got my geek on with my boy Ted Mosby, while my dad chose a different umbrella-weilding star. By far, we got the most Tina Feys/Liz Lemons, which truly speaks to the caliber of people participating in Freeky Friday. Nice work, Freeks!

Now it's time to announce the winner. Our June 2012 Freeky Friday winner is...


Congratultions, Brittany! You'll receive some treats in the mail and a donation the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society in your name! Thanks again to everyone who participated - you've all done your part in spreading the soul and joining in the positivity this month.

But it doesn't stop there! We still have three more weeks in July and a ton of freeking awesome prompts for you all to answer. Don't forget about tomorrow's topic:

What are your little pick-me-ups?

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Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Grown Up Bedroom

Those of you who have been following since the birth of this blog may recall that I live in a dorm room. I have my own bedroom in a small apartment with 4 other graduate students' rooms. We have a kitchen and a bathroom, but no living room. The building is conveniently located to Columbia, approximately equidistant to two major subway lines, and has a doorman and a mailroom. As far as dorms go, it is quite nice. But as it is a dorm and I am no longer a student, so at the end of the summer, I will get the boot. I have decided to move in with two friends who are currently living on the Upper East Side. There are many things I'll miss about Morningside Heights, but that is a topic for another post. This post is about the best part of moving - decorating!

Since this is my first non-student room, I'm trying to give it a different style than anywhere else I've ever lived. I started by picking a color scheme, creating an inspiration Pinboard, and setting three major goals for the room:
  1. My new bedroom should have a really zen feel to it - this is a space where I want to relax. However, I don't want it to be boring. I want the room to be whimsical and inspirational, all while creating a very soothing vibe.
  2. I will minimize surfaces. As my mother would love to tell you, I use any surface more as a dumping ground than for its actual function. I do not want a desk (nor do I need one or have room for one). I also want the room to be as uncluttered as possible in general, which will be difficult considering the size of the room.
  3. Of course, I'm trying not to break the bank here. If a piece is really worth splurging over, I'm willing to shell out a few extra dollars for something I'll have for life. For example, I have recently decided that it is very important to me to have 100% cotton sheets, and at least two sets of them. But for the most part, I'm decorating on a budget here. Wherever I can cut corners, I will.
My source - if anyone has the original source, let me know!

The next step was to find the bedding, since that is arguably the central piece to any bedroom. After much deliberation, I decided a duvet was a better choice than a comforter. I would be lying if I said this wasn't almost entirely influenced by the fact that duvets are much prettier than comforters right now. While my room will only comfortably fit a twin bed, I've decided to go for a full/queen duvet so that I don't need a bed skirt because it's a more sound investment. Even though I'll be getting a discount on it, the duvet insert I plan on getting is a little pricier, so I wanted to make sure I would have it for a while. I fell in love with this cover from Urban Outfitters:


In my quest for duvet magic, I stumbled up on the piece de resistance of my new room also from UO: a gorgeous magazine rack that I intend to use as a night stand. It will add a pop of color to the room and give me a small surface to place my laptop on without allowing me too much space to dump crap on it. Also, it's beautiful, it was on sale, and I'm in love with it. I bought it immediately.


Once I had these two pieces in place, it was time to plan out the space. Using Photoshop and a whole lot of simple arithmetic (math is power, people!), I created a scale model of what my room will look like. Now, I'm not quite sure how big that little entryway thing is on the right because I forgot to measure it, but I'm pretty sure it's tiny. And ignore that gray box, as the room is not a perfect rectangle, but images on Photoshop are.


There is it, folks. My humble little abode. Yes, it is the smallest room I've ever lived in, but I'm really looking forward to it! I think as long as I prop my bed up on risers and utilize my above-closet storage space, I can make a functional, useful space worthy of its Upper East Side neighbors. Two great challenges remain before I can call my room fully decorated: pillows and wall art. What's that, you want to read all about my quest for decor? Alright then, I guess I'll just have to blog about that later!

What's your decorating process? How do you maximize small space for a big impact?

Friday, July 6, 2012

Freeky Friday: A Silent Tradition



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Welcome back, Freeks! Today's prompt:
What's your favorite summer tradition of all time? It could be something from your past or something you still do to this day!
Every summer since I became a teaching assistant at UF, I have attended an amazing conference in Orlando geared towards sign language interpreters called Silent Weekend. Because my old ASL professor runs the weekend, TAs get to go for free as long as they lend a helping hand collecting paperwork, setting up classrooms, etc. I've been four times now, and it's become one of my favorite things about summertime.



There's the obvious reason that I love Silent Weekend: I'm a total nerd and love learning about ASL. I've had the opportunity to take workshops by ASL celebrities like Peter Cook and Keith Wann, and some lesser-known-but-totally-incredible presenters like Bill Ross and Patrick Fischer. While many of the workshops are about interpreting-specific topics like ethics and voicing, many of them really benefit me as an ASL teacher. For example, this past week I attended a workshop about incorporating expansion techniques. Yes, the last few hours focused on interpreting specifically, but the first hour or so was a great opportunity for me to play with expansion techniques in my own signing while watching a master teacher explain them in a voice-off environment. Definitely an eye-opening experience!

But the best part of Silent Weekend is the people. When I first became a teaching assistant, it was something I enjoyed doing, but I didn't totally immerse myself in the environment. By my final year at UF, my fellow TAs had become my family. I was so excited to spend Silent Weekend with a huge group of my friends! We even had an arts and crafts party to make sure we stood out as official TAs at the event.



Last year, I was unable to attend Silent Weekend, but I kept up with the goings on via Twitter and the current TAs who were there. I was OVERJOYED to come back this summer and find that the TA culture was exactly the way I left it - only this time with the addition of alcohol and excessive tweeting. I also had the opportunity to bond with some people I had yet to spend time with This past Silent Weekend was the perfect combination of learning and socializing, a perfect couple of days for a nerd like me! Now that our professor has retired, we are the last batch of TAs he'll ever have... which means we'll be stuck having Silent Weekends like this one for the rest of our days. And I am totally okay with that.

What's your favorite summer tradition?
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What are your little pick-me-ups?