Friday, July 13, 2012

Freeky Friday: Pick Me Ups



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Happy Friday the 13th, Freeks! We hope you're not too superstitious to answer today's prompt?
What are your little pick-me-ups?
Well this topic just begs for a photo list, dontchathink? Here are a few of my favorite tactics to beating the blues:

Reading Harry Potter on my Kindle (I obviously need this cover!)

Funky Wayfarers

Walking in Central Park


Playing on Pinterest (can you tell from these other pictures?)

Painting my nails (although I could never manage something this crazy!)

Sitting in a coffee shop

Stalking brilliant designers on sites like Society6

Stalking puppy pictures, like this one from amazing rescue org Badass Brooklyn

Baking (you saw that one coming)

What are your little pick-me-ups?
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Thursday, July 12, 2012

Freeky Friday: The Freeking June Winner!

Happy Thursday, Freeks! We want to thank you all for your participation in the first month of this summer's Freeky Friday posts! Now before we announce this month's winner, let's recap a little, shall we?

We kicked off the summer by catching up with our participants. We asked you what the best thing that happened to you in the last year was. We heard plenty of awesome responses, from rediscovering your dreams, overcoming adversity, and spending time with loved ones. Next we asked what your favorite local tradition was. While I chose to boast about NYC, plenty of you all tempted me to play in your neck of the woods with stories of ice cream and beaches. We brought back an oldie-but-goodie on June 22nd by asking for your Summer 2012 Positivity Playlists. From Coldplay to LMFAO, Jason Mraz to David Guetta, you guys really made us want to rock out! Finally, we asked for your pop culture alter egos. I got my geek on with my boy Ted Mosby, while my dad chose a different umbrella-weilding star. By far, we got the most Tina Feys/Liz Lemons, which truly speaks to the caliber of people participating in Freeky Friday. Nice work, Freeks!

Now it's time to announce the winner. Our June 2012 Freeky Friday winner is...


Congratultions, Brittany! You'll receive some treats in the mail and a donation the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society in your name! Thanks again to everyone who participated - you've all done your part in spreading the soul and joining in the positivity this month.

But it doesn't stop there! We still have three more weeks in July and a ton of freeking awesome prompts for you all to answer. Don't forget about tomorrow's topic:

What are your little pick-me-ups?

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Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Grown Up Bedroom

Those of you who have been following since the birth of this blog may recall that I live in a dorm room. I have my own bedroom in a small apartment with 4 other graduate students' rooms. We have a kitchen and a bathroom, but no living room. The building is conveniently located to Columbia, approximately equidistant to two major subway lines, and has a doorman and a mailroom. As far as dorms go, it is quite nice. But as it is a dorm and I am no longer a student, so at the end of the summer, I will get the boot. I have decided to move in with two friends who are currently living on the Upper East Side. There are many things I'll miss about Morningside Heights, but that is a topic for another post. This post is about the best part of moving - decorating!

Since this is my first non-student room, I'm trying to give it a different style than anywhere else I've ever lived. I started by picking a color scheme, creating an inspiration Pinboard, and setting three major goals for the room:
  1. My new bedroom should have a really zen feel to it - this is a space where I want to relax. However, I don't want it to be boring. I want the room to be whimsical and inspirational, all while creating a very soothing vibe.
  2. I will minimize surfaces. As my mother would love to tell you, I use any surface more as a dumping ground than for its actual function. I do not want a desk (nor do I need one or have room for one). I also want the room to be as uncluttered as possible in general, which will be difficult considering the size of the room.
  3. Of course, I'm trying not to break the bank here. If a piece is really worth splurging over, I'm willing to shell out a few extra dollars for something I'll have for life. For example, I have recently decided that it is very important to me to have 100% cotton sheets, and at least two sets of them. But for the most part, I'm decorating on a budget here. Wherever I can cut corners, I will.
My source - if anyone has the original source, let me know!

The next step was to find the bedding, since that is arguably the central piece to any bedroom. After much deliberation, I decided a duvet was a better choice than a comforter. I would be lying if I said this wasn't almost entirely influenced by the fact that duvets are much prettier than comforters right now. While my room will only comfortably fit a twin bed, I've decided to go for a full/queen duvet so that I don't need a bed skirt because it's a more sound investment. Even though I'll be getting a discount on it, the duvet insert I plan on getting is a little pricier, so I wanted to make sure I would have it for a while. I fell in love with this cover from Urban Outfitters:


In my quest for duvet magic, I stumbled up on the piece de resistance of my new room also from UO: a gorgeous magazine rack that I intend to use as a night stand. It will add a pop of color to the room and give me a small surface to place my laptop on without allowing me too much space to dump crap on it. Also, it's beautiful, it was on sale, and I'm in love with it. I bought it immediately.


Once I had these two pieces in place, it was time to plan out the space. Using Photoshop and a whole lot of simple arithmetic (math is power, people!), I created a scale model of what my room will look like. Now, I'm not quite sure how big that little entryway thing is on the right because I forgot to measure it, but I'm pretty sure it's tiny. And ignore that gray box, as the room is not a perfect rectangle, but images on Photoshop are.


There is it, folks. My humble little abode. Yes, it is the smallest room I've ever lived in, but I'm really looking forward to it! I think as long as I prop my bed up on risers and utilize my above-closet storage space, I can make a functional, useful space worthy of its Upper East Side neighbors. Two great challenges remain before I can call my room fully decorated: pillows and wall art. What's that, you want to read all about my quest for decor? Alright then, I guess I'll just have to blog about that later!

What's your decorating process? How do you maximize small space for a big impact?

Friday, July 6, 2012

Freeky Friday: A Silent Tradition



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Welcome back, Freeks! Today's prompt:
What's your favorite summer tradition of all time? It could be something from your past or something you still do to this day!
Every summer since I became a teaching assistant at UF, I have attended an amazing conference in Orlando geared towards sign language interpreters called Silent Weekend. Because my old ASL professor runs the weekend, TAs get to go for free as long as they lend a helping hand collecting paperwork, setting up classrooms, etc. I've been four times now, and it's become one of my favorite things about summertime.



There's the obvious reason that I love Silent Weekend: I'm a total nerd and love learning about ASL. I've had the opportunity to take workshops by ASL celebrities like Peter Cook and Keith Wann, and some lesser-known-but-totally-incredible presenters like Bill Ross and Patrick Fischer. While many of the workshops are about interpreting-specific topics like ethics and voicing, many of them really benefit me as an ASL teacher. For example, this past week I attended a workshop about incorporating expansion techniques. Yes, the last few hours focused on interpreting specifically, but the first hour or so was a great opportunity for me to play with expansion techniques in my own signing while watching a master teacher explain them in a voice-off environment. Definitely an eye-opening experience!

But the best part of Silent Weekend is the people. When I first became a teaching assistant, it was something I enjoyed doing, but I didn't totally immerse myself in the environment. By my final year at UF, my fellow TAs had become my family. I was so excited to spend Silent Weekend with a huge group of my friends! We even had an arts and crafts party to make sure we stood out as official TAs at the event.



Last year, I was unable to attend Silent Weekend, but I kept up with the goings on via Twitter and the current TAs who were there. I was OVERJOYED to come back this summer and find that the TA culture was exactly the way I left it - only this time with the addition of alcohol and excessive tweeting. I also had the opportunity to bond with some people I had yet to spend time with This past Silent Weekend was the perfect combination of learning and socializing, a perfect couple of days for a nerd like me! Now that our professor has retired, we are the last batch of TAs he'll ever have... which means we'll be stuck having Silent Weekends like this one for the rest of our days. And I am totally okay with that.

What's your favorite summer tradition?
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Friday, June 29, 2012

Freeky Friday: Where's That Yellow Umbrella?



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Welcome to another Freeky Friday! Today's topic:
Who is your pop culture alter ego?
I feel like everyone expects me to write about Belle, or some other Disney character. But the truth is that when we came up with this topic, my sister and I created it with my alter ego already in mind.


For those of you that don't know, that is Ted Mosby from the sitcom How I Met Your Mother. But how, faithful tribe, can my pop culture alter ego be a 30-something-year-old male architect on a very public quest for love? True, I am none of those things, but the T-Mos and I have some eerie similarities.

Ted Mosby's best friends are a married couple consisting of an opinionated redhead and her goofy lawyer husband.



We discovered that I am Ted Mosby because a long, long time ago, my sister and her husband decided that they are Marshall and Lily: Dave being a goofy lawyer with a good heart and Julia being a spunky redhead with great taste in dresses. They spent ages trying to decide who their Ted was since all of their friends are married. And one day, it dawned on them: I AM TED MOSBY. The relationship the three of them have is really lovely, and that front porch test is something I'm sure my sister has instated at least a few times. But I wasn't convinced that Ted Mosby was my pop culture alter-ego until I learned...


Ted Mosby is fluent in American Sign Language.






In this episode and one other, Ted uses some pretty accurate ASL. And a few episodes later, he becomes a professor... so yeah, professions are actually pretty similar. Also, apologies if there's no sound on this video; my internet is kind of crappy right now so I can't really tell. But it's a silent language now so it should be fine.


Ted Mosby's heart is both drunk and a kid.


In one episode, Marshall invents a game called "Drunk or Kid", in which he tells a ridiculous story and asks the other characters to guess whether he was drunk or a kid when he did whatever dumb thing he is recounting. Keep that in mind.

In this episode, Ted buys a house for his future family that he plans to have with the wife that he has not yet met. The other characters taunt him and basically call him an idiot the whole episode - what the hell was he thinking? Buying this run down rat-infested house was a huge mistake. But Marshall leaps to Ted's side, defending that he ALWAYS rushes into things. He tells Ted that his heart is both drunk and a kid - it does really, really dumb stuff, but it's in the right place. This line perfectly sums up Ted. And it perfectly sums me up too.

Also, Ted has some pretty kick ass friends, and so do I.


Who is your pop culture alter ego?
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Friday, June 22, 2012

Freeky Friday: Moving Forward, Rocking Out



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Welcome to another Freeky Friday! Today's topic:
What's on your positivity playlist this summer? Share your favorite feel-good songs!
Those of you who followed us last year will recall that these Positivity Playlists are my FAVORITE Freeky Friday topics. I love discovering new music, and there's no better kind of music than the feel-good kind. The theme of my positivity playlist this summer is "moving forward". It's a pretty crazy time for me - out of school, moving into a real apartment, preparing for a full-time job - and I find that music is the best thing to help remind me that forward motion is essential, no matter how bittersweet it may seem. So what's on my positivity playlist?

Mumford and Sons - The Cave


Some people might think this song is sad. Those people would be wrong. Mumford manages to capture all of the emotions that are involved with triumphing in the face of adversity, which is essentially what moving forward is all about. Whether it's coping with an addiction or ending a long relationship, this song can pretty much apply to everything. I typically love music for the lyrics, but what I love most about "The Cave" is how the music builds with the emotions involved. The beginning is quiet, timid, confused, but the song builds to a loud, energetic force - the listener has no choice but to grow in the same way.

Freeking awesome lyrics: 'Cause I need freedom now / And I need to know how / To live my life as its meant to be



Fun. - Carry On


I know Fun. is super trendy right now and typically the hipster in me tries to shy away from that kind of music, but I cannot deny the power of this album. The whole thing is a positivity playlist! Like most of my favorite songs, this one came into my life at an apropos time - while I was finishing up my last semester of grad school - and this album on loop is pretty much the reason I graduated. This song is particular is an anthem for anyone who has ever experienced anything in their past that they would like to move forward from. The message is clear: we've all been there, and your only choice is to keep moving forward. 

Freeking awesome lyrics: May your past be the sound / Of your feet upon the ground / Carry on

The Muppets - Rainbow Connection


Ohhhh I love the Muppets. And there's just something about "Rainbow Connection", isn't there? Something wishful, dreamy, almost distant about it. Apart from this being one of my absolute favorite songs to sing ever, "Rainbow Connection" keeps my head in the clouds in the most delightful way. While I am determined to move forward, this song brings a light to the future instead of focusing on overcoming darkness of the past. Whether it's love or work or friendship or life, there's just something about "Rainbow Connection" that applies to us all. Don't believe me? Type it into YouTube and see just how many people have covered it. I, however, prefer when Kermit sings it. I tried to find a video of the 2011 movie version, but it just wouldn't load for me. Vintage will have to do!

Freeking awesome lyrics: I've heard it too many times to ignore it / It's something that I'm supposed to be

What's on your positivity playlist this summer?

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Friday, June 15, 2012

Freeky Friday: The Best Thing About New York City



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Welcome to another Freeky Friday! We're getting local with today's topic:
What's the best thing about summer in your neck of the woods? Any fun local activities or traditions?
I've never met a city that gets so into summertime as New York City does! While the heat is not my favorite weather to explore in, I can't help but get caught up in the summer hype. The absolute best thing about NYC in the summer is that everyone is outside - and I mean EVERYONE, from the tourists to the food trucks, flooding the streets, each and everyday. There are obvious summer activities, like the legendary Coney Island Mermaid Parade and Shakespeare in the Park, but there are plenty of other fun and quirky NYC summer funtivities that I never knew existed until I moved here.


Like outdoor movie series! Several parks, including Bryant Park and Brooklyn Bridge Park, run summer movie festivals, free and open to the public. Some are more family-oriented than others (any guesses as to the movie playing in the above photo?), while some focus on classic films.  These movie series are a fun way to get outside, get together with friends, pack a picnic, and enjoy a flick - regardless of whether or not you've seen it a dozen times. Too hot for you outside, you say? Never fear! The Museum of Jewish Heritage is hosting a Mel Brooks film series in their cozy, air conditioned building. You can bet I'll be checking out a bunch of these this summer!


Another great summertime tradition in NYC is the Jazz Age Lawn Party, which is held during two separate weekends every summer on Governor's Island. Now, Governor's Island is cool to begin with - it's open every weekend from Memorial Day to Labor Day and is chock full of history, nature, and special events - but this Gatsby-esque weekend really takes the cake. Hosted by Michael Arenella & his Dreamland Orchestra, this two-day concert and festival invites guests to journey back to the 1920s with old-fashioned cocktails, a pie recipe contest, a classic car show, and vintage portraits. I mean, they even have Charleston lessons. This summer's Jazz Age Lawn Parties are this weekend (June 16 and 17) and again August 18 and 19.


My third and final favorite summertime activity is drinking on rooftops. New Yorkers know we have a shortage of ground space, but we have an abundance of space up in the air! There's plenty of rooftop bars and lounges only open during the summertime, but my favorite has to be the Metropolitan Museum of Art's Roof Garden. The Met's roof offers beautiful views of Central Park and classic uptown architecture, which is only heightened by its current showpiece, Tomás Saraceno's Cloud City (pictured above). Visitors are invited (with free tickets) to peruse the structure and take in the trippy views through the sculpture's reflective surfaces. The Roof Garden also offers light snacks (read: overpriced sandwiches) and frozen cocktails - all available virgin, of course, in case you'd like to bring the young'ns.

As you can see, there's PLENTY to do in NYC in the summertime! What's your favorite local tradition?

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