Tomorrow, I am leaving NYC for the first time since I got here (with the exception of a day in Long Island, but that hardly counts). Looking back, this is the longest I've really ever stayed in one place without leaving, if only for a day.
Ridiculous, huh? But in undergrad, I had my boyfriend 2 hours away, my mom 4 hours away, my sister 5 hours away, a beach 1.5 hours away, Disney World 2 hours away... and me and my car just peaced out whenever we could. It's not that I don't like where I live. It's just that I get restless and bored in one place for too long of a time. I think it's genetic.

The first time I saw Chocolat, I knew I had found an explanation for this gene. I think I'll call it the North Wind Gene. For those of you who haven't seen the film, Vianne comes from a long line of drifters. They stay in one place until the clever north wind blows in and tells them to go elsewhere.

Her daughter, Anouk, hates this. But she reluctantly follows her mother wherever she goes. My mom has the North Wind Gene. I don't think my dad has it, but his job certainly wants him to. I lived in 5 houses before I was 8. I was used to home being a state of mind instead of a physical location, but I still felt Anouk's resistance to our constant moving.

But once we moved to Florida and stayed for 10 years, I grew restless. You can fight nature, but it'll come back eventually. I couldn't wait to get to Gainesville. Once I was there for 4 years, I couldn't wait to get to NYC. I was seriously done with the entire state of Florida. I should also point out that even though we were in that same house for 10 years, my dad has since moved 3 times and my mom has moved twice. Again, you can fight nature, but it'll catch up.

I know I'll be living in NYC for a while, but that doesn't mean the North Wind doesn't want me getting out of town every once in a while. The stress of school and the excitement of seeing loved ones only adds to the need for a vacation! In general, I'm looking forward to the things I miss about the South: warmer weather, sweet tea, southern hospitality, Publix subs and Chick-fil-A nuggets. But this Thanksgiving, what I'm really looking forward to is starting some new traditions with my family.

This is the first Thanksgiving we'll be having in my sister's apartment, and it's the first Thanksgiving out of the awkward-transition stage that all families go through when the north wind stirs the pot a little. I'm sad that my mom won't be there, but I'm really looking forward to cooking all day with my sister. The menu has some changes that stray away from the traditional Thanksgiving we had while I was growing up, but my all-time favorites are there: my famous green beans, Yukon Gold mashed potatoes, and frozen chocolate mousse pie. I really don't care what else happens as long as I have those three dishes and my family by my side.
Apart from Thanksgiving, I'll be spending a weekend in New Orleans with my sister and her fiance before we head to Atlanta to start the holiday. I've never been, and I'm really looking forward to a REAL vacation with absolutely no responsibilities.
Safe travels to everyone out there going away for Turkey Day! Hopefully I'll find some time to blog while I'm away, but in case I don't, Happy Thanksgiving, y'all!
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